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Hedonism… Bliss Cruise…
and Lifestyle Travel That Doesn’t Follow the Rules

Thinking about Hedonism… or a Bliss Cruise… and wondering what really goes on?

You’re not alone.

We’ve been… more than a few times.
We’ve seen the fun… the awkward… and the moments nobody puts in the brochure.

This isn’t a sales pitch.
It’s simply what we’ve experienced.

So… why do people keep coming back?

✅ Lifestyle-Friendly – Couples, a few carefully selected single guys, and flirty single ladies… people who understand the lifestyle. No pressure… just an open-minded atmosphere.

✅ Affordable Fun – Sometimes we even waive our commission. We'd rather see you enjoy one more excursion… one more drink… or one more memory.

✅ Naughty… and Nice – Sunshine during the day… mischief after dark… and stories you'll probably leave out at family dinners.

✅ Decades of Experience – From clubs and conventions to resorts, cruises, and scuba adventures… we've spent years exploring this world so you don't have to wonder what to expect.

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Hugh and Judy on the equator in Quito

Where Information Meets Temptation — Your Guide to Lifestyle Travel and Exotic Adventures

Welcome to HughAndJudy.com—your guide to lifestyle travel, scuba diving, cruises, and unforgettable adventures.

Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, planning your first trip to Hedonism II or Bliss Cruise, or simply looking for honest travel advice, you'll find real experiences, practical tips, detailed trip reports, and plenty of laughs along the way.

From Caribbean resorts to scuba destinations around the world, we share the adventures, the surprises, and everything in between—so you can plan your own "once in a lifetime"... again.

Our Lifestyle Trips

Hawaii Tahiti Cruise
Hawaii & Tahiti Lifestyle Cruise – June 29 to July 11, 2027 

🚢 Cruise the South Pacific—Lifestyle Style!
12 days. 8 ports. 1 jaw-dropping, champagne-popping, run-around-your-cabin-naked adventure with like-minded friends.

Start in Hawaii – volcanoes, beaches, mai tais strong enough to make you forget your own name, plus optional scuba dives for those who love exploring beneath the waves.

🚢 Sea Days Done Right – translation: cabin parties, balcony flirting, and maybe not leaving someone’s stateroom for — a few hours!

🚢 French Polynesia Finale – Tahiti, Bora Bora, and more. Think bucket-list diving, bucket-list excursions, and bucket-list naughtiness all in one trip.

💵 All This, Easy to Book:
💵 Just $250 down – final payment not due until March 1, 2027.
💵 Risk-free cancellation up to 120 days before sailing.
💵 Payments go directly to NCL—your money is safe with the cruise line (we do not hold your deposit).
💵 $100 cabin credit just for booking through us.

🚢 Cabins & Pricing:
🚢 Inside cabins start at $2,089 per person (12 nights, aboard the remodeled Norwegian Spirit – 2022).

Lifestyle couples on a swinger-friendly vacation with Hugh & Judy, laughing and having fun at a tropical resort
Lifestyle Cruises

Big parties on takeover cruises? Been there, done that (we’ve worn out more than a few cabin beds and even broke a couch bed). What we really love are the smaller, cozier adventures where by day two you know everyone’s name. Think 10–20 couples on a gorgeous ship, an amazing destination, a nice group rate and zero pressure to wear costumes—unless that’s your kink.

We’ve cruised Alaska (moose not included), carb‑loaded across the Mediterranean and we’re plotting our next mischief in the Hawaii, Tahiti and Scandinavia—because nothing says “vacation” like castles, fjords and the chance of bumping into a Viking.

Our trips try to stay inexpensive and semi‑private, with exclusive onboard events and insider tips you won’t find in any brochure—from pre‑cruise play parties to post‑trip gems. We’ll help you travel fabulously, flirt dangerously and snag the cabin closest to the fun—whether you’re into suites or money saving inside cabins.



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Bliss Feb 2028

Lifestyle scuba divers in Jamaica with Hugh & Judy group, preparing for a fun underwater adventure.
Hedonism II

2026 Dates:
May 2 – 9 (Wild… 150+ couples)
Oct 10 – 17 (Balanced… your sweet spot)

Hedonism is heating up… and so are the options.
Whether you want a smaller, more relaxed vibe… or a full-blown “what just happened?” week… there’s a trip for you.

Ready to get naughty in paradise?

Flip-flops on… inhibitions off.
Join us at Hedonism II… where the drinks flow, the clothes disappear… and the week turns into one long, unforgettable story you probably won’t tell in full.

What is Sexy Silver?

Think over-45… experienced… playful… and still very much in the game.
New to the lifestyle? Welcome.
Seasoned? You’ll fit right in.

Around the nude pool… expect flirting, laughter, and moments that feel like you accidentally signed up for an R-rated masterclass.

Rules are simple:
Consent is everything.
Ask first… always.
“No” means no… full stop.

Bring good energy… respect… and sunscreen for places you didn’t think about.

The Experience

Body shots… theme nights… pool games… and a nude pool that’s basically legend status.
Vegas meets spring break… then gets a little more interesting.

Days bring options…
Scuba… sailing… or the famous naked catamaran.

Nights?
DJ at the pool… Piano Bar energy… and the Nude Bar running until 5am.

We add the extras…
Welcome bags, smooth check-in, giveaways… and just enough structure to keep the chaos fun.

The Bottom Line

Hedonism II…
All-inclusive… all-adult… all about the fun.

Books by Judy and Hugh

Real stories, lifestyle adventures, travel, marriage, and the kind of memories that prove forever does not have to be boring.
Book 1

Marriage With a Flexible Guest List

Why is butter the key to the first date? 

See Books Here


Book 2 

Destinations, Decadence & Bad Decisions

Is there a stripper in our bed?  

Buy on Amazon



Forever isn't boring
Book 3

Age Has Nothing to Do With It

What is a Grilled Dicky Award?  

Buy on our website




Book 4

From Cootie Corner to Bora Bora

What is an Energizer Unicorn? 

See on Amazon

Lifestyle couples on a swinger-friendly vacation with Hugh & Judy, laughing and having fun on a cruise!.

Not All Play, All the Time… And That’s Perfectly Fine

Not every trip is a 24/7 play-fest (though hey, no judgment if that’s your style). Some come to dive, some to relax, some just for the company of fun, open-minded people.

There’s zero pressure—do as much or as little as you like. Some couples keep it private, others mix and mingle with groups. Most trips include private rooms, so whether you’re sharing with one couple, a few friends, or throwing the door wide open, it’s all up to you.

We welcome couples, single ladies, and a few select gents. What matters is respect, good vibes, and zero drama. Our trips are about incredible adventures, unforgettable laughs, and maybe a little naughty mischief along the way.

Come for the diving and destinations. Stay for the laughter, the friendships… and the stories you’ll only tell with a wink. If you ever find yourself half-naked on a boat yelling, “Where did I leave my pants?!” — congratulations, you’re one of us.

Frequently Asked Questions

What types of trips do you offer?

We host lifestyle-friendly group trips of all shapes and sizes. Sometimes it’s a classic tour through Europe with a bus full of fun-loving couples. Other times it’s a scuba diving adventure in places like the Red Sea, the Great Barrier Reef, or the Caribbean. We’ve done cruises, resort takeovers, and everything in between. Whether you’re here for the sightseeing, the scuba tanks, playtime or just the sexy stories, we’ve got a trip with your name on it.

Do we have to be swingers?

Nope. Just open-minded and comfortable around lifestyle couples

Do single men attend?

Yes, but they are vetted, respectful  and very couple friendly. Normally our trips are couples-focused, with the occasional single lady joining. (yes, unicorns are real) 

Is it all about sex?

Not at all—these are vacations first. But let’s be honest, when you mix sunshine, cocktails, and open-minded friends… things tend to get spicy.

Ready to Join the Fun?

Our trips are more than vacations—they’re about connection, laughter, and maybe a few “Did we really just do that?” moments. Pack light, bring your sense of adventure, and come travel with us.

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