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Hedonism… Bliss Cruise… and Lifestyle Travel That Doesn’t Follow the Rules
Thinking about Hedonism… or a Bliss Cruise… and wondering what really goes on?
We’ve been… more than a few times. We’ve seen the fun… the awkward… and the moments nobody puts in the brochure.
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How to Be a Great Single Gentleman in the Swinger Lifestyle
Showing up is easy. Becoming the single gentleman people actually want around often takes a little more work... and apparently involves keeping Mr. Happy in his wrapper for at least the introduction.
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Travel with us on unforgettable lifestyle vacations, cruises, and scuba adventures.
Hedonism II Jamaica
October 10–17, 2026
Negril, Jamaica
Really you are going to miss being chased around naked in the nude pool? The friends, the body shots and the playroom?
Hedo InformationVirgin Voyages • Valiant Lady
January 16–23, 2027
Southern Caribbean
Seven nights from San Juan with Bob from Naughty in Nawlins... five Caribbean ports, being naughty when we can, best of all no kids. Leave your panties at home.
See the Virgin CruiseBliss Cruise
February 24–28, 2027
Caribbean Cruise
Four nights... playrooms, parties, clothing optional deck and get away from the winter cold. We can find you a cabin. Hold on to your knickers.
Check CabinsHedonism II Jamaica
May 1–8, 2027
Negril, Jamaica
Sexy Silvers naughtiest week ever, after this your body will need a vacation. Don’t wait... it sells out fast.
Hedo InformationHawaii & Tahiti Cruise
June 29–July 11, 2027
Hawaii & French Polynesia
12 days, 8 ports, and cabins from $2,089 per person. Bucket list, Certainly. F_ck it list, Probably. Any more questions.
See the TripWhat It’s Really Like
This isn’t a sales pitch. It’s simply what we’ve experienced.
- Lifestyle-Friendly: Couples, a few carefully selected single guys, and flirty single ladies. No pressure… just an open-minded atmosphere.
- Affordable Fun: Sometimes we even waive our commission. We’d rather see you enjoy one more excursion… one more drink… or one more memory.
- Naughty… and Nice: Sunshine during the day… mischief after dark… and stories you’ll probably leave out at family dinners.
- Decades of Experience: Clubs, conventions, resorts, cruises, scuba adventures, and plenty of unexpected moments.
Where Information Meets Temptation
Welcome to HughAndJudy.com… your guide to lifestyle travel, scuba diving, cruises, and unforgettable adventures.
Hawaii & Tahiti Lifestyle Cruise
June 29 to July 11, 2027
12 days. 8 ports. One champagne-popping, run-around-your-cabin-naked adventure with like-minded friends.
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Start in Hawaii with volcanoes, beaches, mai tais, and optional scuba dives. Sea days bring cabin parties, balcony flirting, and perhaps not leaving someone’s stateroom for a few hours. The French Polynesia finale includes Tahiti, Bora Bora, bucket-list excursions, diving, and plenty of mischief.
Just $250 down. Final payment is not due until March 1, 2027. Payments go directly to NCL, and inside cabins start at $2,089 per person.
Lifestyle Cruises
Big parties on takeover cruises? Been there, done that. What we really love are smaller, cozier adventures where by day two you know everyone’s name.
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Think 10–20 couples on a gorgeous ship, an amazing destination, a good group rate, and zero pressure to wear costumes unless that’s your kink.
We’ve cruised Alaska, carb-loaded across the Mediterranean, and we’re plotting more mischief in Hawaii, Tahiti, and Scandinavia.
Hedonism II
Flip-flops on… inhibitions off. Hedonism II is all-inclusive, all-adult, and all about the fun.
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Think body shots, theme nights, pool games, scuba, sailing, the famous naked catamaran, and a nude pool that has earned its reputation.
Consent is everything. Ask first… always. “No” means no… full stop. Bring good energy, respect, and sunscreen for places you didn’t think about.
Books by Judy and Hugh
Real stories, lifestyle adventures, travel, marriage, and the kind of memories that prove forever does not have to be boring.
Book 1
Marriage With a Flexible Guest List
Why is butter the key to the first date?
Book 2
Destinations, Decadence & Bad Decisions
Is there a stripper in our bed?
Book 3
Age Has Nothing to Do With It
What is a Grilled Dicky Award?
Book 4
From Cootie Corner to Bora Bora
What is an Energizer Unicorn?
Not All Play, All the Time… And That’s Perfectly Fine
Not every trip is a 24/7 play-fest. Some come to dive, some to relax, and some just enjoy the company of fun, open-minded people.
There’s zero pressure. Do as much or as little as you like. We welcome couples, single ladies, and a few carefully selected gents. What matters is respect, good vibes, and zero drama.
Come for the diving and destinations. Stay for the laughter, the friendships… and the stories you’ll only tell with a wink.
About Hugh & JudyExplore the Whole Site
These are the useful pages that were hard to find from the old home page.
Bliss Cruise
What It’s Really Like Cruise Reviews February Review April 2026 November 2026 February 2027 April 2027 November 2027Hedonism II
Hedonism Guide Hedonism FAQs Do’s and Don’ts Room Types Spa Room Review Trip Reports May 2025 Review October 2025
THE QUESTIONS PEOPLE ACTUALLY ASK
So... What Do You Really Want to Know?
We’ve been doing this a long time. These are the questions people ask us... and the answers we give them.
What types of trips do you offer?
We host and sell trips for lifestyle swinger people. Cruises, resorts, scuba diving, and travel trips through Europe and Egypt as well.
Are you expecting us to jump your bones the minute you arrive? Doubtful we will. Can you have sexual encounters on our trips? Many do, but it’s not always like that free-for-all running around in your head.
Do we have to be swingers?
Nope. Just open-minded and comfortable around lifestyle couples. Others may approach you and you can decide how far you want to take the fantasy. Respect is the main key.
Is it all about sex?
I want to say... not at all. But normally there is quite a bit. These are vacations first. But when you mix sunshine, cocktails, and open-minded friends... things can get spicy, and you really want to be part of that spice, or you wouldn’t be on the website.
Do single men attend?
Sometimes, but they are vetted, respectful, and very couple-friendly. Most trips remain couples-focused, with the occasional single lady joining. Yes... unicorns are real, and are happy to be in your bed.
What is a Bliss Cruise really like?
Think your local swinger club on steroids. It’s a lot more people having a lot more sex than you’ve seen before and you’ll probably see more nudity than you’ve seen in a lifetime. Get naked, let loose, and have some fun. Bring your fantasy list, as this is the time to cross a few things off.
Does everyone have sex on a Bliss Cruise?
No. Some people apparently came for the prime rib... and on occasion it’s already in the playroom.
What happens the first time you walk into a swinger club?
If you are wanting to be attacked when walking in, you might be surprised. Other than much sexier outfits, most are like a common club. It’s the back of the club that has all the sexual mystery.
Dress sexy, don’t drink too much, and have an open mind. Most of all, don’t grab a table and never get up... meet people, say hello and yes, some people will snub their nose at you. You’ll need a thick skin, but maybe, just maybe, you’ll get to bump uglies with someone.
What is Hedonism II really like?
The rooms are ok, the grounds are not that good. The food, you won’t be talking about back home. Entertainment, ok, but don’t think Las Vegas.
But those four or five hours in the nude pool every day for a week with no phone to bury your head into will send you home with lifelong friends. It really is the most sexual happening place on the planet all year long. We’ve been to most of the places. If you can’t get some action here, you might as well pack it in.
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Pack light, bring your sense of adventure, and come travel with us.