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Hedonism… Bliss Cruise… and Lifestyle Travel That Doesn’t Follow the Rules
Thinking about Hedonism… or a Bliss Cruise… and wondering what really goes on?
We’ve been… more than a few times. We’ve seen the fun… the awkward… and the moments nobody puts in the brochure.
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Travel with us on unforgettable lifestyle vacations, cruises, and scuba adventures.
Hedonism II Jamaica
October 10–17, 2026
Negril, Jamaica
Seven nights of fun, friends, and unforgettable memories.
Hedo InformationBliss Cruise
February 24–28, 2027
Caribbean Cruise
Four nights aboard one of the world’s largest lifestyle cruises.
Check CabinsHedonism II Jamaica
May 1–8, 2027
Negril, Jamaica
Escape to Jamaica with Hugh and Judy for another incredible week.
Hedo InformationHawaii & Tahiti Cruise
June 29–July 11, 2027
Hawaii & French Polynesia
12 days, 8 ports, and inside cabins from $2,089 per person.
See the TripWhat It’s Really Like
This isn’t a sales pitch. It’s simply what we’ve experienced.
- Lifestyle-Friendly: Couples, a few carefully selected single guys, and flirty single ladies. No pressure… just an open-minded atmosphere.
- Affordable Fun: Sometimes we even waive our commission. We’d rather see you enjoy one more excursion… one more drink… or one more memory.
- Naughty… and Nice: Sunshine during the day… mischief after dark… and stories you’ll probably leave out at family dinners.
- Decades of Experience: Clubs, conventions, resorts, cruises, scuba adventures, and plenty of unexpected moments.
Where Information Meets Temptation
Welcome to HughAndJudy.com… your guide to lifestyle travel, scuba diving, cruises, and unforgettable adventures.
Hawaii & Tahiti Lifestyle Cruise
June 29 to July 11, 2027
12 days. 8 ports. One champagne-popping, run-around-your-cabin-naked adventure with like-minded friends.
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Start in Hawaii with volcanoes, beaches, mai tais, and optional scuba dives. Sea days bring cabin parties, balcony flirting, and perhaps not leaving someone’s stateroom for a few hours. The French Polynesia finale includes Tahiti, Bora Bora, bucket-list excursions, diving, and plenty of mischief.
Just $250 down. Final payment is not due until March 1, 2027. Payments go directly to NCL, and inside cabins start at $2,089 per person.
Lifestyle Cruises
Big parties on takeover cruises? Been there, done that. What we really love are smaller, cozier adventures where by day two you know everyone’s name.
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Think 10–20 couples on a gorgeous ship, an amazing destination, a good group rate, and zero pressure to wear costumes unless that’s your kink.
We’ve cruised Alaska, carb-loaded across the Mediterranean, and we’re plotting more mischief in Hawaii, Tahiti, and Scandinavia.
Hedonism II
Flip-flops on… inhibitions off. Hedonism II is all-inclusive, all-adult, and all about the fun.
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Think body shots, theme nights, pool games, scuba, sailing, the famous naked catamaran, and a nude pool that has earned its reputation.
Consent is everything. Ask first… always. “No” means no… full stop. Bring good energy, respect, and sunscreen for places you didn’t think about.
Books by Judy and Hugh
Real stories, lifestyle adventures, travel, marriage, and the kind of memories that prove forever does not have to be boring.
Book 1
Marriage With a Flexible Guest List
Why is butter the key to the first date?
Book 2
Destinations, Decadence & Bad Decisions
Is there a stripper in our bed?
Book 3
Age Has Nothing to Do With It
What is a Grilled Dicky Award?
Book 4
From Cootie Corner to Bora Bora
What is an Energizer Unicorn?
Not All Play, All the Time… And That’s Perfectly Fine
Not every trip is a 24/7 play-fest. Some come to dive, some to relax, and some just enjoy the company of fun, open-minded people.
There’s zero pressure. Do as much or as little as you like. We welcome couples, single ladies, and a few carefully selected gents. What matters is respect, good vibes, and zero drama.
Come for the diving and destinations. Stay for the laughter, the friendships… and the stories you’ll only tell with a wink.
About Hugh & JudyExplore the Whole Site
These are the useful pages that were hard to find from the old home page.
Bliss Cruise
What It’s Really Like Cruise Reviews February Review April 2026 November 2026 February 2027 April 2027 November 2027Hedonism II
Hedonism Guide Hedonism FAQs Do’s and Don’ts Room Types Spa Room Review Trip Reports May 2025 Review October 2025Frequently Asked Questions
What types of trips do you offer?
We host lifestyle-friendly group trips of all shapes and sizes. Sometimes it’s a classic tour through Europe. Other times it’s a scuba adventure, cruise, resort trip, or something completely different.
Do we have to be swingers?
Nope. Just open-minded and comfortable around lifestyle couples.
Do single men attend?
Sometimes, but they are vetted, respectful, and very couple-friendly. Most trips remain couples-focused, with the occasional single lady joining. Yes… unicorns are real.
Is it all about sex?
Not at all. These are vacations first. But when you mix sunshine, cocktails, and open-minded friends… things can get spicy.
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Pack light, bring your sense of adventure, and come travel with us.